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Presented by Chanta Blue, LCSW, CST
Sex & Relationship Therapist

Chanta is an author, speaker and certified sex therapist from New Jersey.  She specializes in working with women of color, and folks in romantic relationships who are interested in improving their self-esteem, experiencing sexual difficulties, premarital counseling, and exploring BDSM/kink and consensual non-monogamous lovestyles.  Her passion lies in aiding women in reducing shame related to their sexuality and finding pleasure in not only their sex lives but their lives as a whole.

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What Is A Munch?

A munch is a gathering of kinky people in a vanilla setting, usually held at a bar or restaurant.  Munches are social opportunities to meet people who are interested in or are active participants in the lifestyle.  It's also a way to establish yourself in the community and get vetted for lifestyle parties and events.


What Makes BGM Different?

BGM is specifically designed to be a safe space for Black women and femmes to build their kinky community and enjoy food, drinks, and juicy conversations! Often at general munches, Black women tend to be the only Black person there unless they bring a friend to tag along.  This sometimes leads to uncomfortable and fetishized conversations with other attendees which can be a HUGE deterrent from the lifestyle, especially for newbies.  Other munches are also often held at dive bars and hole-in-the-walls, which can be fun at times, but can also be cringy and aren't the best places to wear your cute new outfit!


BGM aims to provide an elevated experience for high level, ambitious, and powerhouse Black women who value luxury, elegance and discretion.  This event is a welcoming space to freely ask questions, share experiences, and to connect to valuable resources without fear of judgment, shame or guilt.  At BGM we also play fun games and go through our kinky conversation starters to get everyone engaged and connected.  So don't worry about attending the event alone, you're sure to make a new friend or two...or three!


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Its was a breathe of fresh air! I enjoyed meeting women like me and speaking about kinky topics in public over food and drinks.

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She {Chanta} has such a welcoming presence, it really makes you want to pay attention and participate.

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I really enjoyed meeting other open minded women and having a safe space to discuss sexuality and sexual experiences without judgment.

"It was exhilarating and freeing honestly even magical"


Artriece S.

"It was truly amazing! Everyone from the host to the attendees. It was such a safe space to talk about or thoughts and feelings."


Kamiyah M.

"This was my first munch and I was so happy to be in a space full of vibrant women who were so welcoming, open and articulate about their experiences."


"I really enjoyed the event, environment and attendees. I most enjoyed hearing about Chanta's journey, the multi-generational crowd and the range of experience."

Dana M.


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Registration Ends July 12th

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Q. Who is this event for?

A. This event is designed to be a welcoming space for all Black women and femmes.  This is inclusive of queer, trans, and masculine of center women.  You must also be 21+ to attend this event.  Non-Black women are also welcome to attend.

Q. Where will the event take place?

A.  BGM will take place in a private or semi-private room of a Northern New Jersey venue (typically in Essex County).  The exact location is only disclosed to registered participants for privacy purposes.


Q.  What are my parking options at the event venue?

A.  The venue has a plenty of metered street parking.  You do not have to pay the meters after 6pm.  There is also a parking garage nearby.

Q.  What do I need to bring to the event?

A.  You need to bring your ID and an open mind!

Q.  What should I wear to this event?

A.  Cute, sexy, dapper, flirty attire... like you would wear on a dinner date! No fetish wear as this is a vanilla space.  The lounge has an "chic" dress code.

Q.  How can I contact the organizer with any additional questions?

A.  Send any additional questions to

Q.  What's the refund policy?


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